Day 93 of 100 Indian Tinder Tales

M from Germany talks about matching with a special girl in India.

“I had been on Tinder for several months. Not necessarily for romantic adventures but to meet interesting new people! I had matches every now and then, but one person was very special and I will now tell you about her.

During a business trip to Pune, I matched with her and she started the conversation. Because my stay in Pune was very short, we could not meet then, but began to text each other – quickly we changed from the tiresome Tinder to Whatsapp and soon spent many hours texting and talking to each other!

It was truly amazing and surprising how fast we felt a deep connection and after a couple of days, she was the most important confidant for me. We had many common interests, be it philosophy or politics, and interestingly we often had similar opinions, although we looked at topics from completely different angles. I felt that was very enriching and/or enlightening! Fortunately, she felt similarly.

We made a pact to always be honest to each other and never hold back our opinions, even if we disagree. This was new for me, I felt accepted for who I am. While discussing our previous experiences, I learnt a lot about my own personality.

Both of us were clear that we did not want a serious relationship but I still felt the urge to call her my “dear, darling, treasure.” Soon we became very passionate about each other and texting turned into sexting – we now knew we had to meet in real life very soon!

We agreed to spend a weekend in beautiful and romantic Udaipur. Luckily, our connection worked in real life too! I was really happy! We spent two days talking, smiling at each other, holding hands, walking through town, visiting the palaces, kissing in dark alleys, and making love in our beautiful hotel room. She was shy at first and could not let go completely, but when we finally had to separate at the train station, she told me that she felt very loved the whole time.

Five minutes later, sitting alone in my train, I already missed her…

In the following weeks, we talked a lot and shared the good daily experiences, but also the personal tragedies with each other. While we grew closer as each other’s confidants, the passion was somehow gone. I missed this part of our connection.

We made a new plan to meet again, but unfortunately her job did not allow her to take leave. Over time, our talking became more sporadic, however, I believe the sympathy never diminished and I am sure we still think that we met someone very special… I can imagine that she will read these lines and if so, I want to tell her that I will always be her friend and will always try to be there for her, if she needs me! I don’t write this to rekindle the passion between us. If our paths cross again some day, then things which should happen, will happen – I believe in fate! “

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