Day 98 of 100 Indian Tinder Tales
Inspiration: From Egyptian tombs of Niankhkhnum and Khnumhotep
A from Delhi shares his story. Thank you for trusting me, A!
“I have been a loner all my life and have often been caught cribbing by people about several issues.
Then five months ago, my colleague at work introduced me to Tinder and I logged on .
After looking at a few girl’s profiles, I switched to swiping people from the same sex. I was just curious to see how it works and how men initiate conversations with men. I was amazed that every second person I was swiping right matched with me. There were several conversations with many men but none clicked.
Then one day I happened to meet someone very interesting. Soon numbers were exchanged and we talked about cars, bikes, politics, sports and video games. I was confused – was this the reason I joined tinder? No. To have general casual conversations with people around? Not at all.
We decided to meet for beer and the agenda was to have a detailed debate on the current political situation. Imagine! We got so drunk, had heated arguments and landed up becoming great friends. The person was extremely good looking, neat and balanced and I believe so am I.
At around 2 in the night, thinking that the meeting is over, we sat in our respective cars and said goodbye. At the traffic signal, I got a call from him, “my car is behind yours and if you didn’t mind the arguments, let’s talk for some time.”
We drove to his apartment for another session of beer. And then came a tight hug, followed by a kiss. It was the first time I was kissed by a guy and I lost myself in him. It was followed by very passionate sex. Though slightly painful, I loved it. Never thought the first Tinder date would be so pleasurable. I stayed with him for one full day and night as it was the weekend and we loved each other up like anything. There was sex and conversations on the sofa, in the kitchen, in the washroom, on the carpet and every possible place where we were. He didn’t want me to leave. The best part was there was a lot of respect and genuine love which reflected in our attitude towards each other.
We met several times after that and we still meet and the connection has grown more stronger. There is no commitment but just good vibes and of course great sex.”