Over to Bebe from the US.
“I have loved sex all my life it seems. I enjoy my body and long for it to be enjoyed.
My boyfriend hardly tries to have sex with me. I can’t help but feel I am undesirable to him. I am typically confident and an exhibitionist. I never used to compare myself to other women because I knew it would bring misery, but now I feel terribly inferior. This new insecurity frustrates me and I hate myself for being so weak-minded.
I’ve only recently developed disdain for my body. I have always been petite. People compare me to a doll often because I’m quite tiny. All of a sudden I feel like there isn’t enough of me. My hips are narrow and my breasts are small. What is there for my lover to hold onto?
I still love my body. It is soft with gentle curves. It is strong and healthily functional. But if it cannot make love and passion, what good is that?”